making fun (not funny)

Criticism is inherently personal or particular. When someone criticizes you especially pertaining to “making fun” do not take it personally. Here’s why, first analyses who it is giving you a hard time, is this a person’s a opinion is reflective of the public at large and not some dick who is just trying to make you look foolish. If it is some dick everyone else probably dislikes him to a similar degree and if not maybe there is a reason for it. Second is it true or false, it might just be some generic insult which is used toward everyone, Tom Brady has probably been called ugly before, and bill gates has probably been called stupid. However, if you think it is true should or can you work on bettering yourself. If for example you are fat and someone criticizes you for that, you can work on loosing weight and are probably already aware. If it is true, be honest with yourself and try to work on it. If it is true and you cant work on it (excluding vain/unnecessary surgery) accept it and move on, if you are short that’s the genes you were given and you probably come from a long line of short people, accept it so it doesn’t bother you, be honest and you cant do any thing about so either ignore it or preferably use it to your advantage.